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Are you following your bliss?

I just had a birthday, and let’s just say I’m closer to entering retirement than I am to entering college. For readers who may be way younger than me, you might not “feel” what I’m going to write about (although one day you will).

I used to think I had all the time in the world to accomplish my goals. But this year it dawned on me that all those trite, old sayings are really true – time goes by quickly, it doesn’t last forever and at some point we all need to follow the Nike admonition to “Just Do It.”

Aren’t we all busy? Don’t we all sort of complain about what we “wish” we could do if we could just find the time (or the energy or the money or the courage). I know I do.

Life’s little wakeup calls 

It wasn’t just the birthday that caused these thoughts to bubble to the top of my head. I also lost my 82-year-old dad this past year, and when I started doing the math, I realized that his ripe old age is only about 25 years away for me, give or take a few.

Twenty five years. Sounds like a good chunk of time, but is it really? Anyone over 40 knows how quickly the years zoom by, all in little bite-sized increments — one year here, five years there, then suddenly 20 years or so have passed. Continue Reading…

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13 things I learned in 2011

I don’t know about you, but 2011 has probably been the most difficult, bittersweet year I can recall. It was a year in which I excitedly published my first book, and then lost my dad a few months later. That sort of year, if you know what I mean.

There are a few quotations that come to my mind in describing such a year, “When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure.” Or “A clay pot sitting in the sun will always be a clay pot. It has to go through the white heat of the furnace to become porcelain.

But life, once it’s gone, there are no do-overs. There’s no backspace button. No deletes.

What I know for sure is that adversity and challenges suck, but they also lead to knowledge and insight and growth. So, I’d like to share some of the lessons that came to life for me in 2011. Continue Reading…

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I write, thanks to those who believed in me along the way

Those of us who become writers likely have a zillion people to whom we can be thankful. Teachers, parents, bosses, all the editors who have rejected our submissions – each of them have pushed us (or kicked us) along the way to follow our bliss and live our dream of being a writer.

So, on this Thanksgiving 2011, I sincerely thank:

- My dad Pat, a lifelong journalist, freelance writer, political commentator and all around great father for teaching me, talking to me and spending time encouraging my writing career. You’ve always been there when I had a question about grammar, journalism, interviewing someone, or simply figuring out the right approach to a story. Dad, you’ve been my mentor and friend and I owe so much of my writing career to you. Continue Reading…

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5 quotes that could change your attitude – and your life

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Several years ago when I lost my job a good friend took to sending me inspirational quotes via email each day. Every morning when I turned on my computer, up popped an email from her that included quotations that gave me the boost I needed to move forward on that day. It was her way of sharing a daily dose of encouragement. The quotes were from the famous, the funny and the philosophical, and each one seemed to provide just the words I needed to keep my attitude in check.

I love quotations and the more I delve into them, the more I find quotes that directly relate to just about everything in my life. Some of the easiest places to find quotes include Think Exist, Brainy Quote and Quote Garden. I know there are a ton of other sites too.

While I can’t list every quotation that has ever impacted me, there are a few that have really made a difference and I keep them in the back of my mind always. I’d like to share them here. Continue Reading…

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5 questions that have helped redirect my life

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Here are a few questions I’ve been thinking about over the past year or so. I admit, the older I get the deeper I go, but I think it is good to sometimes take a philosophical look at what shapes us and the areas that might need a bit of tuning up.

1. Are you doing what you really want to do?I’ve pondered this question as I’ve seen my career path morph and I can finally say, Yes. The older I get the clearer it is that this moment is the only chance I have to follow my heart and to do what is best for me. One of the things I have stopped doing is basing decisions on income. While of course I need to make a living, my decisions lately are less about how much money something will make me and more about whether it fulfills me and makes me want to get up in the morning. I believe that if you do what you love, the money will come. One of my favorite quotes is by Joseph Campbell, who said, “Follow your bliss and the universe will open door where there were only walls.” No one can create our lives for us, and if we’re not doing what makes us happy then it’s up to us to make it happen. We will never get this time back again! As author Rose Tremain said, Life is not a dress rehearsal.” Continue Reading…

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Following the Yellow Brick Road into 2011

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“The road to success is always under construction.” ~ Lily Tomlin

I’ve always felt there is a “path” that I am destined to follow in my life and if I just found that path and stayed on it, life would be bright and I would always know my direction. Several years ago when I committed to being a full-time professional writer, I knew I had finally set foot on the right road.

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Reverb 10: Marshmallows and the meaning of life

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The campfire crackles and spits sparks into the black night sky and I watch as the tiny orange dots float up, up, toward the silvery moon and stars, like little fireflies lilting and meandering and then silently disappearing in the distance. Not more than 15 feet away in the pitch darkness of the woods, the shallow river continues to course along, never stopping its constant chatter as it splashes and bubbles over rocks and pebbles. Continue Reading…

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